i really don’t want to talk a lot about the nick robinson thing because i’m really hurt, but can we hold off on saying stuff like ‘who didn’t see this coming’ and ‘did you really not expect this’ cause like… that just feels like unnecessary guilt-tripping for just like, putting trust in somebody. like i get where that’s coming from but it just seems both unnecessary and turning some of the negativity of this situation in the wrong direction. like, we SHOULD be able to hope that if people seem decent they ARE decent, even if they’re famous, and it’s not the fault of the ppl who thought that when they turn out to be wrong… like i kno u shouldn’t put ppl on a pedestal or whatever, but it still seems like bad taste to add shame into all this (esp right now) for thinking he might’ve actually been an okay guy
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wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims
no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.
emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.
emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.
emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.
emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.
emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.
anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them
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