pajamaslam:

i really don’t want to talk a lot about the nick robinson thing because i’m really hurt, but can we hold off on saying stuff like ‘who didn’t see this coming’ and ‘did you really not expect this’ cause like… that just feels like unnecessary guilt-tripping for just like, putting trust in somebody. like i get where that’s coming from but it just seems both unnecessary and turning some of the negativity of this situation in the wrong direction. like, we SHOULD be able to hope that if people seem decent they ARE decent, even if they’re famous, and it’s not the fault of the ppl who thought that when they turn out to be wrong… like i kno u shouldn’t put ppl on a pedestal or whatever, but it still seems like bad taste to add shame into all this (esp right now) for thinking he might’ve actually been an okay guy