soft-reset:

when nb ppl describe ourselves with “current” gender terms like male aligned + female aligned we get told we’re enforcing gender stereotypes. 

when we create new words to describe ourselves we get told we’re transtrenders + snowflakes. 

so if yr nb, do yrself a favor. describe yrself however the fuck u want. there will always be ppl telling u yr wrong no matter what so just do what feels best for u.