imanes:

people on this website project a lot on complete strangers who they have assigned a certain role to, without the person’s consent, and i think it’s weird and selfish and self entitled to expect to be catered to and completely disregard the emotional labour that goes into processing that type of message. i know we’re all looking for some type of solace but cut people some slack. they aren’t necessarily here to deal with your issues specifically. the same can be said about lazy people who expect others to process a whole bunch of information for them and then get mad when they aren’t given an answer. just accept that some people aren’t running a help desk and move on.