yolandasgf:

i do think it’s important for lesbians to be able to talk about experiences that are often exclusive to us (for instance, how scary it is to come to terms with the fact that we don’t experience any attraction to men at all), but there is no point in trying to separate ourselves from other wlw. bi/pan women’s contributions to discussions about loving women won’t taint them, only enrich them, and defining bi/pan women by their potential to be attracted to men isn’t radical it’s just misogynistic and biphobic as hell